Loving Ourselves

As healer/nurturers, at times always put others before ourselves.  We can get so preoccupied with every day life that we run ourselves down.  Letting the thoughts of what loved ones think we should be filter into us.  We are doing this, that being there for this person, that person being who they need us to be we forget who we truly are...our true self.  We forgive when others say we should not.  We love when others ask why?  We do not judge when society is screaming at us to do so.  I used to apologize for myself...yes for being ME!  I tried to fit into that square when obviously I am a circle.    We are going to make decisions that we are not going to like.  But we have the ability to stop and go in the direction we want to go.   I believe that we are where we should be.  At times it is so difficult and just down right sad we dont understand.  But this too is teaching us a lot about ourselves.  Showing us how strong we are and just what a truly divine creation we are.  We came here to experience and experience we do!  As loving and understanding we are to others, we should also be to ourselves!  Stop beating yourself up because oops you took a path that you are not liking.  If there is some one negative around you, bless them and be on your way!  If circumstances are you have to be around them, when they start the negative talk stop them..you can do that.  Simply say you do not wish to discuss it.  There is always a way out, you just have to be willing to see it.  So take some time.  Balance your chakras, clear your auras....feel you..be YOU!  No one else can.  Let the lotus bloom in your heart and fill your body with love.  Honor YOU!  Set your boundaries, the way you would advise others to do...and keep them!  Be the eccentric, out-there, different person you are...thats what makes the world beautiful and full of magick! 

Namaste!